What to Know Before Buying Your First Vibrator, Plug, or Sleeve

Stepping into the world of adult toys can be thrilling, but also a little overwhelming. With so many shapes, materials, and technologies, how do you know what’s right for you? Here at New Fine Arts, we believe pleasure is personal, but finding the right accessory can make all the difference. If you’re shopping for your first vibrator, plug, or sleeve, here’s a go-to beginner’s guide.

Start with Yourself

Before browsing, consider how you would like to explore your own body. Do you prefer external stimulations like a gentle buzz on your clit or perineum? Or are you curious about internal sensations, such as G‑spot or prostate contact? If you’re unsure, there are dual-stimulation toys that offer both external and internal sensations in one device.

Choose Body-Safe Materials

Safety matters. Stick with body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone, Acrylonitrile butadiene styrene (ABS) plastic, stainless steel, glass, or anodized aluminum. Avoid jelly and Thermoplastic Elastomer (TPE). These porous materials can build harmful bacteria and aren’t hygienic. A safe option is silicone since it is especially popular for its softness, easy cleaning, and hypoallergenic nature.

Start Small and Simple

Begin your toy journey with something manageable. A compact bullet or palm-sized vibrator is less intimidating and easier to control. If you’re exploring internal pleasure, try a G‑spot style curved toy designed for internal stimulation. And don’t stress about too many features, simple can be satisfying.

Think About Features That Matter

Here are a few features worth considering:

  • Rechargeable vs. Battery: Rechargeables tend to be quieter, more powerful, and eco-friendly. Batteries can be cheaper and functional if you’re unsure what you’ll like.
  • Noise Level: If discretion matters to you, look for whisper-quiet motors that won’t interrupt the mood.
  • Waterproof: A waterproof toy lets you take your fun into the bath or shower, plus it’s easier to clean.
  • Vibration Settings: Choose something with adjustable speeds and patterns to explore what feels best. Flexibility is key in learning your preferences.

Size and Fit

Size does matter, especially girth. Most people can adjust depth, but width can be harder to get used to. When you can, visit our New Fine Arts store to get a feel in person; New Fine Arts even lets you test a toy on your hand to gauge strength. Or try the popular “nose trick”, if the toy feels pleasant on your sensitive nose, it may feel similarly good elsewhere.

Budget Wisely

You don’t have to go to a luxury brand right away. Entry-level toys can be great starters. Mid-range toys offer better build, quality, more settings, and sometimes waterproof or rechargeable features. High-end toys provide advanced functionality while luxury items go beyond that, but aren’t necessary to enjoy yourself.

Cleanup and Care

A clean toy is a safe toy. Wash your device before and after every use. Most silicone toys can be cleaned with mild soap and water or boiled if non-electronic. Store them in breathable bags and away from dust and heat. Cleaning and caring for your toy is also caring for your hygiene health in the long run.

Dive into our store

There’s no such thing as a perfect toy, but there likely is one waiting for you. It is important to take your time exploring what feels good for you. Start with safe materials and simple features, and always keep cleanliness in mind. Remember, pleasure is a journey and New Fine Arts is here to guide you every step of the way. Our knowledgeable and friendly staff are here to support you at every step. You deserve pleasure, excitement, and discretion. So come in, take your first step, and start your journey with us.