How to Use Strap-Ons for Lesbians: Foreplay, Harnesses, and Confidence Tips

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Strap-ons are more than just a sex toy, they’re a tool for connection, exploration, and most importantly, pleasure. For many lesbian couples, strap-on play can add a new level of intimacy, excitement, and versatility to foreplay and more.

At New Fine Arts, we help people find pleasure products that best suit their bodies, needs, and desires. If you’ve been curious about strap-ons but don’t know where to start, this guide will help you feel informed, confident, and ready to explore strap-ons.

Why Use a Strap-On during Foreplay?

Strap-ons are usually associated with penetration, but they offer so much more than that:

  • Intensify intimacy and trust between partners.
  • Allow one partner to take on a dominant role.
  • Provide a G-spot stimulation or orgasm.
  • Adds a touch of excitement to your sexual routine.
  • Help couples explore fantasy and role play.

The beauty of strap-on play is that it’s customizable. Whether you want to take things slow or get a little wild, there’s a style, size, and position to match your vibe.

Selecting the Right Harness

Before you dive into positions, it’s important to choose the right harness because comfort and fit matter just as much as its function.

Panty-Style Harnesses

  • Soft, comfortable, and easy to wear.
  • Great for beginners
  • Often comes with built-in O-rings for discreetness.

Adjustable Strap Harnesses

  • Have more control over fit and movement.
  • Ideal for more effective or adaptable play.
  • Easily switch out different dildo sizes or girth.

Single v.s Double Strap

  • Single-strap designs allow more clitoral stimulation for the person wearing it.
  • Double-strap harnesses provide better stability and support for more flexible movement.

At New Fine Arts, you can look and compare different harnesses that are displayed and get personalized recommendations or answers to any question from our friendly, knowledgeable staff.

Picking the Right Dildo

Choosing a dildo for your strap-on is just as important as choosing the harness. Here are three things to keep in mind:

  • Material: Look for body-safe silicone dildos.
  • Size: Start small and work your way up. Especially if you’re new to penetration.
  • Shape: Some dildos are curved for a G-spot stimulation, but there are also realistic shapes.

Make sure your dildo has a flared base so it can fit securely into the harness. Many customers like to start with a beginners-kit that includes both a dildo and a harness.

Explore Strap-Ons at New Fine Arts

At New Fine Arts, we carry a wide range of strap-ons, harnesses, and beginner kits for all experience levels. Whether you’re just starting out, wanting to explore, or looking to upgrade your collection, we’re here to help you find the perfect fit!

Our staff is trained to answer your questions, show you how things work, and make your shopping experience safe and comfortable.

Ready to Explore?
Strap-ons aren’t just about penetration, they’re about confidence and creating new ways to enjoy each other. Come visit us in store and take your foreplay to the next level.

Visit New Fine Arts today and ask us about our most popular strap-on sets for couples.