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Embracing Your Kink: Essential Bondage Toys for BDSM Lovers

For many people, BDSM is an essential part of their sexuality. You’ve got your power exchange as well as numerous bondage toys that help to mix things up.

BDSM has been proven to benefit your health and relationships. If you haven’t tried it yet, you may be missing out.

Here are some different types of bondage toys you should consider introducing to your partner.

Strap-On

Nothing screams power exchange like the woman in the relationship taking the man from behind.

Pegging has become all the rage in the past decade. This refers to a cis woman performing anal sex on a cis man with a strap-on dildo.

As it turns out, some men love having things shoved where the sun don’t shine.

It naturally puts the woman in a dominant position and the man in a submissive position. Peggings also allows women to feel what it’s like to take positions that a man would normally take.

If you’re fleshing out your toybox for future sexcapades, make sure you have at least one strap-on toy prepared.

Restraining Bondage Toys

It wouldn’t be bondage without someone getting tied up and dominated. Whether you’re a newbie or a veteran looking into introducing bondage for beginners, restraints are a good place to start.

Wearables and restraints refer to anything that can be used for bondage. That includes cuffs, ball gags, rope, blindfolds, chastity devices, and more.

Most people start with cuffs and straps. You can tie someone up easily, and they come in many different styles.

For the more dominating, chastity devices can let you control when and if your Sub orgasms.

Spanking Tools

For those seeking a little bit (or a lot) of pain, impact play might be what you’re looking for. Floggers, riding crops, and paddles are some of your typical toys when approaching impact play.

However, be careful where you strike the other person. Always avoid joints and bony areas, including the head, neck, and tailbone.

Nipple Clamps

For particularly kinky bondage toys, nipple clamps can be used for pleasure, breast torture, or even as a restraint.

The most common type you’ve most likely used are common clothespins. However, there are also screw clamps, tweezer clamps, and Japanese butterfly clamps.

In some cases, nipple clamps will increase sensitivity. In others, you can use them to really ramp up the pain.

Violet Wand

To add a little spark back into the bedroom, consider electro stimulation. Violet wands are the safest way to introduce electricity into your BDSM rotation.

These types of bondage toys typically come with a variety of attachments, and the shocks don’t penetrate any deeper than the skin.

They even making electric floggers and ropes for anyone looking to combine features.

Get Your Kink On

Don’t let your sex life get too comfortable. These bondage toys can help spice things up and show your partner who’s in charge.

If you’re looking for something else or a specific product, reach out to us for help. We’ll get you hooked up with the best gear and toys around.