Exploring Different Dildo Sizes: Which Is Right for You?

While we doubt you have any need for the world’s largest dildo, there is every chance you might want to try something unique to you at some point in your life. There are so many different dildo sizes available, and insertable toys are very much a personal thing. So, how do you work out what the perfect size for you is?

Within this article, you will find several points you might want to think about. Consider your own needs and feelings, and think about each step in this list, as you might find a few surprises in there too.

First Time?

If you have never had an experience with inserting anything, you want to start with care. Many people have difficulty with their first time, and some may find their unique body has some trouble with inserting objects.

With your first toy, do not aim for larger than only one inch in diameter. You could even go smaller if you are unsure, though you should trust your own body. If you then go for larger, do not move too fast, and go up only a quarter-inch at a time until you feel comfortable with the fit.

Your Anatomy

Everybody is different. Dildos also come in so many different forms that you will likely find something to fit your unique nature. Some of the things you might want to consider related to your body include:

Dildo Girth

Some dildos only fit well for specific people and your opening might be much too tight. This is a normal situation to find yourself in once you start experimenting, as you might want to see how far you can go.

To solve this, you might either need to turn yourself on a bit more, or you might need to train your body to accept a different size. Or, it might be you have found your limit. You can always talk to us if you need more information on what we can provide to help with either of these.

There is also every chance your body needs something larger so you want to feel full. Plenty of stories exist of people who do not feel much of something too small after they insert it. Getting something larger might give you the extra “oomph” you need to get the pleasure you are seeking.

Dildo Length

Much like how some people can only fit certain girths, this applies to lengths too. Though, be aware you might be able to take in more once you are in a state of arousal. So, when experimenting, be sure to get yourself in the mood before you decide something does not match your body.

At the same time, remember some holes, such as the throat or the anus, keep on going. You may find with practice you can fit things further than you can to start with.

Where You Want to Stick It

Of course, this would be a bad article if it was not inclusive of all needs. While you could choose to use this dildo in a vaginal or anal context, there are other options.

If you are more of an anal fan, remember you will need a flanged base regardless of the shaft’s size, something wider than any other part of the item. This will stop the body’s natural movements from pulling it up into your body and demanding a trip to the hospital.

You might not even want to have it near your groin, as some people choose dildos for their aesthetic. They might want to display them, show them on camera, or even consensually threaten someone with their use. Each need might demand a different size, and if you want to use it with someone else make sure to talk to them about it first.

Loosen Up

Be aware you might find your body accepts different sizes depending on your current state. When you first start, make sure you are in the mood. Try to turn yourself on first without the use of the dildo, as this will change how comfortable your body is in accepting something.

If you are able, you might even want to try having an orgasm, or approaching it, before inserting an item. If you have a vagina, then the closer you are, the easier the item is likely to be to insert. This will be due to the increase in natural lubrication and a change in the internal shape during arousal.

Do You Need a Harness

If you wish to use the dildo on someone else, you will need to ensure it fits in any harness you already own. If you do not own a harness, you can either buy one from a supplier or make your own with some safe rope work.

The dildo will need to fit through any hole in the front of the harness and have a flared base so it does not fall out. You will also want to make sure the dildo is a good fit for the person you wish to use it on, rather than yourself.

What Even Is “Medium”?

While many sites may list sizes such as “Small”, “Medium”, “Large”, or “Extra Large”, there is no standardization to this. These numbers are internal references only, and you may find they fluctuate wildly between different shops. Because of this, you should make sure you check the specific details on each one and avoid any surprises.

Many sites will have a translator of size to measurements, so have a look around and see what you can find.

Browse Different Dildo Sizes

With all this information available, you might want to check out several different dildo sizes and find a perfect fit for you. This is where we come in, as our selection reaches all the way from the very small to the very large.

Our dildos and dildo accessories can help you reach the end goal you are looking for. So, check out our shop and find something perfect for you, whatever your need.