As more and more people get comfortable with “out of the box” sexual experimentation, butt plugs have become regular purchases at sex shops worldwide.
Unfortunately, a lot of people don’t know how to use a butt plug correctly. This can lead to some painful and embarrassing occurrences.
If you want to avoid some of these problems (trust us, you do) we want to help (from a safe distance).
Keep reading to learn about how to use anal plugs correctly…before it’s too late.
First: The Purchase
There are a lot of options in the butt plug world. You might be overwhelmed with all of the glass, plastic, and latex available to you. How do you know what to choose? Which is the right option?
Realistically, different people are going to like different things. There are 2 things that you want to keep in mind when you’re making your choices.
The first is the size. If you’re a beginner, you obviously want to start small. We don’t have to explain that one.
The second is the base. You want a butt plug with a flared base. That cavity is connected, eventually, to organs that run through your body. It’s not uncommon for people to have to go to the hospital to get butt plugs (and other mysterious objects) extracted.
Don’t let this happen to you. It’s embarrassing for all parties involved and it’s a great way to kill a mood.
Second: The Application
You don’t need a partner to use a butt plug. Most toys can be used alone and these are no exception.
You want to make sure that you use ample lubricant, especially the first time. The area is not self-lubricating. You could be at risk of scratches, painful stretches, or small tears if you don’t lubricate.
You also want to go slowly. Some people never go all the way at all. If you’re just beginning, be patient with yourself.
Third: The Lead-Up
You probably don’t want to go straight from zero to butt plugs. They’re much easier to use if you’re already either turned on or relaxed. Whatever that takes for you, start there.
You also might not want to start with a plug unless it’s very small. You can start with a finger or 2 to make sure that this is something that works for you.
Again, this doesn’t have to be done with a partner, but if it is, make sure that they’re being gentle.
There are plenty of ways to use plugs in the bedroom, but when you’re just beginning you should take it one step at a time. Try it out on its own first before getting more adventurous.
How to Use a Butt Plug: Proceed With Caution
When you’re trying to figure out how to use a butt plug, just go slow and steady, and don’t overwhelm yourself. If your partner is pressuring you, ensure that they let you take your time to avoid any harm.
These can be scary for some people. Be easy on yourself.
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